Now accepting Founding Members

The most transformative
dating experience you’ll ever have.

Dating on an app is hard because you're not getting the depth. Intentional was built differently — with questions that go deeper than any other app dares to ask, and a transparency system that means you always know where you stand. Let us connect you.

Free to apply · Limited Founding Member spots · No credit card required

Why join now

What it means to be a Founding Member.

Founding Member spots are limited and do not reopen. When they are gone, they are gone. The people who join now are the ones who shape what this becomes.

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Gold Founding Member badge — permanently on your profile
Every match you ever have will see it. It signals you were here first and believed in something before anyone else did.
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Founding Member pricing — locked in for life
Your rate never increases. The price only goes up after launch. You pay what you paid when you believed first.
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Priority access before the public launch
You get in first. Your city pool fills with people who share your level of seriousness. You are not competing with the masses — you are ahead of them.
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Your experience shapes what gets built
Founding Members are surveyed during beta. Your feedback directly influences what comes next. This is your app as much as ours.
Apply for Founding Member access →

No credit card required · Limited spots · Phoenix, New York & Austin launching first

The problem

The anxiety of not knowing
is exhausting everyone.

You don’t know if they’re talking to ten other people. You don’t know why they went quiet. You don’t know if they can show up when things get hard. Intentional changes all of that.

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The silence is deafening
You sent a message. You went on a date. And then — nothing. No explanation. No closure. Just silence, and the spiral that follows it.
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You never really know who you’re talking to
A name, a photo, a one-liner. After weeks of talking you still don’t know how they handle conflict, what they need financially, or whether they can actually commit.
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You can’t trust what you’re seeing
Unverified profiles. Outdated photos. People presenting a version of themselves that doesn’t match who shows up on the date.
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You’re exhausted and you know it
You’ve been on the apps. You’ve swiped, matched, chatted, and been disappointed. You’re not looking for more options. You’re looking for the right one.

Who this is for

Intentional is for you if...

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You want a long-term partner, not another situationship. Every other app is built for casual. This one isn't.
02
You've been on the apps and you're tired of the experience. You want to get past the surface faster and connect on what actually matters.
03
You want a safer, lower-anxiety environment — verified identities, no ghosting, and you always know where you stand.
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Your life, values, and version of a great relationship are specific. You want an app that actually addresses the questions others won't ask.
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You genuinely believe love and healthy relationships make the world better — and being part of something that advances that matters to you.

The solution

Built on four uncompromising pillars.

Every feature on Intentional exists to serve one outcome — helping serious people find a real relationship.

35+
Profile dimensions
Covering every real compatibility factor no other app asks about — mindset, finances, healing, intimacy, body composition, sleep habits, and more.
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Curated candidates
AI surfaces your top 25 matches. Not an infinite stack. A deliberate, ranked pool of compatible people — refreshed as you act on it.
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Day protocol
Every connection has a structured 7-day path from first message to first date. The app tracks it. Ghosting has consequences here.
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Point integrity score
Your dating character is measurable. Visible on every profile. Earned through consistent, respectful behavior — and lost when you disappear.

What we ask that nobody else does

What actually determines
whether love lasts.

These are the things that actually determine long-term compatibility. We ask them upfront so you don't discover them three months in.

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Mindset & healing depth
Self-reflection practices, attachment style, trauma work — separated by type. No other dating app goes here.
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Financial health upfront
Financial values, position, habits, and partnership expectations — surfaced before the first date, not after.
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Intimacy & sexual health
Physical pace, intimacy needs, and health disclosure — handled with dignity, privacy, and complete honesty.
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Pets & travel reality
Allergies, sleeping arrangements, boarding costs, travel flexibility. Real lifestyle factors that end real relationships.
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Family & age gap honesty
Children who always come first, aging parents, biological timelines, and financial provider expectations all named.
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Body composition education
Frame, muscle vs fat distribution, how weight is carried — not just a number. We educate while we match.
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Sleep & bedroom compatibility
CPAP machines, snoring, night guards, light sensitivity, TV habits, temperature — things that affect daily life together.
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Wellness practices
Supplements, sauna, cold plunge, red light therapy, breathwork — how you take care of yourself is part of who you are.
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Western, ranch & country lifestyle
Horses, rodeo, ranch life, barrel racing, roping — a complete lifestyle identity no other app acknowledges exists.
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Social games & gaming culture
Billiards, poker nights, darts, casino trips, bar games — a full social lifestyle that shapes who you spend your time with.
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All members face-verified
Government ID matched to live biometric scan
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Your safety matters here
No fake profiles. No bots. No exceptions.
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Catfishing is a criminal offense
AZ, TX & NY identity fraud statutes apply
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No ads. No data selling. Ever.
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The 7-day protocol

From match to first date in one week.

Every connection has a structured path. The app tracks it. Both people see exactly where they are — and what comes next.

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Day 1 – 2
In-app messaging
Connect, introduce, start a real conversation. AI suggests opening questions based on your compatibility breakdown. Both profiles are open and visible.
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By Day 3
Move off the app
Exchange numbers. Both parties confirm in-app that you've moved. The escalation tracker advances. This bilateral confirmation is required — the app doesn't assume.
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Day 4 – 5
Voice or phone call
Hear each other's voice. The best predictor of in-person chemistry is how a conversation feels on the phone. This step is intentional.
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By Day 7
First date
Plan it. Confirm it. Show up. Seven days from first message to first date. The protocol exists because momentum matters — and so does your time.

Anti-ghosting protocol

You’ll never be left wondering
what happened.

Intentional has a structured accountability system built into every conversation. Silence has a consequence. Respect has a reward. And you always know where things stand.

24 hours
Both parties receive a private check-in. Four honest options: need more time, not as interested, moving off-app, or respectful close. No flag yet — just a nudge.
48 hours
A ghost flag is pinned to the non-responsive party's public profile. Permanent count. Visible to all potential matches. Accountability is public.
72 hours
Connection auto-closes. Both profiles freed. Dating integrity score updated for the non-responsive party. The record is permanent.
Anytime
Respectful Close — a guided 30-second goodbye. No ghost flag issued. Your integrity score is protected. Honesty is always rewarded here.

Dating integrity score

Here, how you treat people
follows you everywhere.

Every member has a score from 0 to 10. System-generated from real behavior. Visible on every profile. You earn it — or you don't.

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YOUR SCORE
9.0 – 10
Excellent — priority boost in matching
✦ Priority
7.0 – 8.9
Good — surfaces normally
Active
5.0 – 6.9
Needs work — amber flag visible
Caution
Below 5
Suppressed — removed from discovery
Hidden

What makes Intentional different

Built to remove the anxiety
of not knowing.

Every feature on Intentional was designed around one question: what makes serious daters feel safe, respected, and clear about where they stand?

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Transparency you can feel

You always know where things stand.

Before you invest your time and your heart, you deserve to know where things actually stand. Intentional gives you that clarity before the first message is ever sent. The guesswork is gone. The anxiety is gone. What remains is connection with confidence.

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Life happens. We get it.

Silence no longer means what you think.

On Intentional, silence means something specific — not what you think. Honest signals replace the unknown so the spiral never starts. Because the anxiety of not knowing is one of the most exhausting parts of modern dating. We removed it entirely.

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What actually makes love last

Match on your ability to repair.

Relationship researchers agree: the number of arguments a couple has doesn’t predict whether they last. What predicts it is the willingness to lean back in when things get hard. Intentional is the first app to match on this — and it changes everything about who you end up with.

Membership

Simple. Transparent.
Built for people, not advertisers.

No ads. No data selling. Ever. Revenue comes from members only — which means our only incentive is helping you find the right person.

Free — always
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No credit card · No commitment
✓  Create your full verified profile
✓  See your compatibility scores
✓  Browse your curated candidate pool
–  Cannot initiate contact
–  3 profile views per day
Join free. Build your profile. When Intentional launches in your city you're already in the pool — verified and ahead of everyone who waited.
✦ Founding Member
Cohort Alpha
$20 / month
Locked at this rate forever.
Full Intentional+ access · First 500 only
✦  All Intentional+ premium features
✦  8 active connection slots
✦  Priority match queue
✦  See who viewed your profile
✦  Gold Founding Member badge — permanent
✦  This price never increases · Ever
Apply for Founding Member access →
500 spots · First come, first admitted · Gone when they're gone

Full membership tiers — including monthly and multi-month plans for Intentional and Intentional+ — will be revealed at launch. Cohort Alpha Founding Members are locked at $20/month — forever, regardless of which plan structure launches at full release.

Founding Member Application

Ready to date
with intention?

This is not a sign-up form. It's an application. We read every one — and we select Cohort Alpha members based on the sincerity and depth of your answers.

2026 Launch Cities
Phoenix · New York · Austin
Building communities in cities across the US.
Not in a launch city? Apply now and be first on your city's founding list.
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